Nickname Seeks Former Player: “America’s Step-Dad”

What we are doing is assigning cool nicknames to players rather than the opposite, which is a bloodless tradition that has been with us too much and too long.

So how does this running feature differ from the dear, departed exemplar of the genre? “Nickname Seeks Player” was devoted to active base-ball-ists, while “Nickname Seeks Former Player” is the province of those who no longer play this fine game because they are dead in spirit and perhaps also dead in the corporeal sense. Boileryard Clarke? Eligible! Sal Maglie? Eligible! Fred Lynn? Eligible! Dontrelle Willis? Eligible! Pete Rose? Asshole!

You may surmise from this that almost the entire sprawl of baseball history lies before you, like a sexy patient etherized upon a table. So prepare yourself to plumb both depths and heights as we ponder fitting candidates for this week’s name to nicked: “America’s Step-Dad”!

Before we proceed, though, let us remember those who have previously survived this crucible of sturdy ghosts. Last time out, Charlie Manuel edged Wade Boggs for the drilling rights to the nickname “Colonel Sanders’s Drinking Buddy.” So now let us — snifters in hand, cardigans beswaddling our mortal parts — gaze upon The Fireside Mantel of Reposed Fortune-Hunters:

Museum of Questionable Medical Devices” – Ted Williams
A Garbage Truck That Runs on Lightning” – Matt Stairs
Colonel Sanders’s Drinking Buddy” – Charlie Manuel

And now … “America’s Step-Dad”!

Implications and Intimations

America’s Step-Dad might be a well-meaning sort like Mike Brady. He might have “step-dad hair” like a middle-aged Robert Goulet. He enjoys being mediocre at tennis. He wears an ionized bracelet because, who knows, it might work. Perhaps, right now, he is at a Knights of Columbus luncheon. His handshake is sturdy yet not punishing. He occasionally complains that the color of the tough-up paint doesn’t quite match the color of his very rational sedan. He thinks about gas mileage. His medicine cabinet suggests mounting fates. He and your mother were brought together by a love of the evening news.

Who, citizens of sufficient origins, should be nicknamed “America’s Step-Dad”?



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pbs
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pbs

Kevin Millar.

Fletch
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Fletch

I’d say Millar is more of the fun-and-uninhibited uncle type.

Roll Fizzlebeef
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Roll Fizzlebeef

Jim Thome is America’s Step Dad. Quiet, knowing, clean-cut, and tries hard to be there for America when it’s feeling down.

chrisb
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chrisb

Jim Gantner.

Smooth
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Smooth

No! Bill Schroeder.

Hosewalt
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Hosewalt

The answer is Kevin McReynolds

Well-Beered Englishman
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Curt Schilling.

Robert J. Baumann
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Member

“does not give half a shit about gas mileage.” is the rest of that sentence.

Well-Beered Englishman
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So is he America’s Irate Uncle?

Steve
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Steve

It has to be an older player, obviously. Jamie Moyer might seem the obvious choice, but I’d argue he’s actually too old. It also needs to be someone who seems fairly straight-laced.

My choice: Randy Wolf.

A lot of step-dads sport the neatly-trimmed goatee. He’s definitely old enough to be a step-dad. He’s complains to umpires, but does so in a way that he isn’t widely considered a “hothead” or something. This tells me he’s the guy who occasionally asks to “talk to the manager”, or who writes a professional, yet strongly-worded letter of complaint–and still snail mails it.

His insistence on not letting Jonathan Lucroy ever catch him over the duration of his Brewer tenure suggests he is fairly set in his ways–what step-dad isn’t?

Yet, he seems like a nice enough guy. He really strikes me as a good neighbor. Despite his millions, I bet his vehicle would be considered rational.

Your other criteria: gas mileage, evening news, firm-yet-not-crushing handshake, they all fit.

Randy Wolf is America’s Step-Dad.

Robert J. Baumann
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FORMER PLAYERS ONLY, PPL

MikeS
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MikeS

Tommy Lasorda. Only because my own stepfather always reminded me of Lasorda.

Hugh Briss
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Hugh Briss

Tom Brookens.

therood
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Seconded.

I randomly sat next to Tom Brookens at a bar in DTW. I had no idea who he was at first, but I was wearing a White Sox hat and he started talking AL Central with me. He was pretty much the most ordinary baseball guy in the world and a solid alternative to America’s Weekend Dad (Mitch Williams) or America’s Real Dad (Lenny Dykstra).

Additionally, Brookens mentioned that he was at Disco Demolition Night as a rookie and his thought as a young man was “If this is what the big leagues are like, this shit could be alright.”

Jay
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Jay

Nolan Ryan. Never know whether he’ll sit down and have a beer with you, or put you in a headlock and beat the piss out of you.

Smooth
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Smooth

Bert Blyleven.

Kyle
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Seconded.

dp
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Steve Garvey is America’s Stepdad, and its real father as well. “You’re not my real Dad!” “Might want to take a look at those hairy forearms and immaculate pearly whites of yours and think hard about how your Mom and I met, sonny.”

chrisb
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chrisb

Garvey was my first thought, too, but that was before I read the description. Garvey is the vaguely unsettling stepdad, not the vaguely milquetoast stepdad.

Fletch
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Fletch

Quite. Analogous to the African woman we are all said to be descended from, just about every Angeleno can trace his/her lineage back to Steve Garvey.

mattmaison
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Yes.

Noel
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Noel

David Cone, Don Mattingly or Luis Gonzalez

DD
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DD

Mattingly is a fine choice.

Brian
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Brian

It’s Garvey and it’s not even up for debate

Jennifer
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Jennifer

Charlie Leibrandt

Zach Reynolds
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Knuckleballer Tom Candiotti!

From his wikipedia page:
“Candiotti was inducted into the International Bowling Museum’s Hall of Fame on June 27, 2007.”

Bryan
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Levi Stahl
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I wanted to vote for Will Clark, but I had Steve Garvey in the back of my mind, and the people here have convinced me. Plus, he fits the role of “guy your mom married whom you thought was a total phony but she thought was perfect, then later she tearily admitted that you were right about.”

olethros
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olethros

Stepdads aren’t gentle tempered, polo shirt bedecked, milquetoasts lazily boning your mom in the missionary position once a week or so. They’re drunken louts prone to unpredictable bursts of physical violence and fervent religiosity. As such, Ty Cobb.

Illinois glass M. Michael Sheets
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Illinois glass M. Michael Sheets

You had me at milquetoast. I support Ty Cobb based on your appeal.

chrisb
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chrisb

This is the Garvey-type stepdad.

The Cobb type is biological fathers to tons of kids by different mothers — a parade of chorus girls who were all the same age when he married and/or knocked them up. The Cobb type is not marrying women with kids.

Røark
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Røark

He is also not AMERICA’s step dad. He might represent a stepfather to 85% of the residents of Florida, but the choice for America is Mit Romney in khaki shorts that sit three inches above the knee.

DD
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DD

It’s gotta be someone you can see trying a little TOO hard to be liked and be “cool”, despite being boring as hell. Thome is a good option, though he’s still playing. I first thought of Jim Eisenriech. Moyer? Jim Palmer?

DD
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DD

Other options – Al Leiter? Orel Hershiser?

PBS
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PBS

That’s why Kevin Millar, dude.

samuelraphael
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Jim Palmer.

Pancakes for breakfast, kids.

samuelraphael
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So I met your mom at the money store… now you’e getting a new Dad. Who wants Ice Cream?

Dreamin
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Dreamin

Yes. Seconded.

Choo
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Palmer in the kitchen, spatula in hand, wearing tighty whities while mom sleeps off the Ron Burgundy-style boot knocking. Yes.

deadhead
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deadhead

I vote for one of the league leaders in illegitimate children…

Tug McGraw!!

Plus, Tug gets a little creepy with young girls, as some step-dads are wont to do. To verify his creepiness with young ‘uns witness this clip from the great tv show The Baseball Bunch (the 3:45ish mark).

Also, noted sexual predator of a girl I went to HS with might be a nice fit…

Luis Polonia

deadhead
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deadhead
Mrs. Cistulli
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Mrs. Cistulli

I wish it had been me that Tug McGraw molested. I second Mr. McGraw’s nomination.

chiefglockandhummer
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chiefglockandhummer

maddux

Coo
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Coo

Cal Ripken, Jr. He was more of a dad to me than you ever were, dad.

sporkless
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Pat Tabler. Boring AND creepy.

Katie
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Katie

John Olerud. Tall, quiet, adept, safety first.

Katie
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Katie

Rides the subway to work!

Double J
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Double J

Bo Belinsky. He was linked to all the tabloid hotties of his time (including engaged to Mamie Van Doren). The step-dad who was stepping out. i’m sure he got more rebounds than Dennis Rodman.

bob
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bob

Robin Ventura… have you seen his press conferences?

Eminor3rd
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Eminor3rd

I second this nomination

Jack
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Jack

Might as well throw Pat Burrell into this. He literally could be both everyone’s step-dad and real dad simultaniously.

samuelraphael
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Yes.

Dainer's Hubris
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Dainer's Hubris

Rick Monday, Marine Corps reservist, American flag savior, Canadian team in the World Series preventer. Oh, how I resent him.

agam22
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agam22

Kevin Stocker. There is no one more milquetoast than Kevin Stocker

acklyoung
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acklyoung

Buck Martinez. The hair says it all.

samuelraphael
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Late but pertinent entry:

REY OYLER

Comes home drunk after going 0-For August

Doesn’t give a damn about your math homework.

Orfo
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Orfo

On that note…John Kruk?

olethros
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olethros

Fritz Peterson and Mike Kekich. Google it.

David G. Temple
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Dave Winfield.

RamboDiaz
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I’m late to the party, kinda, but I really totally super duper feel like Steve Garvey would be the exemplary paint-complaining evening-news-loving stepdad that America should have, even at the expense of America’s own fathers.

Beevis
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Beevis

Tom Browning.

reillocity
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reillocity

Tommy John.

BJFan
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BJFan

Matt Stairs, O Canada

Eminor3rd
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Eminor3rd

Doug Meintceiwicz

Eminor3rd
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Eminor3rd

Just to pump this nomination up: Doug has a son that he named “Steel Mientkiewicz”

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